Lisa Caroselli is a Dating Coach for Men, offering tools and insights that change the dating game to work in your favor. Her dating advice for men is different in that you will not be asked to change who you really are. And who doesn’t like to hear that, especially from a dating coach?
Why would I need dating advice? Couldn’t I just set up several dating profiles and go to a bunch of Meetups?
Setting up dating profiles and going to meetups or other social events will increase the number of social contacts you make. It will not necessarily increase the quality of those contacts. Dating is not a numbers game. Many singles have expressed that meeting more people makes dating more of a chore than they originally thought.
What relationship advice does a dating coach for men provide?
Ideally, a dating coach should give minimal advice. Instead, their job is to guide you into greater clarity about what you expect to get out of dating and to facilitate setting goals and action plans for moving forward. Relationship means different things to different people.
Does a dating expert set me up on dates or help me get more dates?
Not directly. A dating expert is not a matchmaker. However, through our work together, you will clarify your hopes and dreams and, most important, what you have to offer. The effect is that you will send out a clear message about what you DO want, increase your confidence that you can get it, and—this is key—believe that you deserve it without having to change who you are. She/he will also provide tools and practices for shoring up your self-esteem and confidence which play a key role in attracting love and so much more.
How might I benefit from speaking with a female dating coach for men?
If you’re heterosexual, receiving feedback from a woman may be helpful in ensuring that your intentions come through in your communications with the opposite sex. However I believe that as you gain clarity, your intentions will come through in your communications with everyone. And the right person for you will understand what you mean even if you are not a smooth talker. They will love you as you are right now.
What does a professional dating coach provide that I can’t get from talking to my friends?
A lot! Seriously, friends are great for support. They know you and love you, warts and all. However, most people tend to turn to friends for commiseration and sympathy. While this is helpful when you’re still hurting from a recent break-up or loss, it’s only helpful for a short time. A professional dating coach does not have a personal relationship with you at stake that would prevent him/her from providing you with the guidance you need that will help you reach down deep and move forward.
How do I choose a professional dating consultant?
A dating coach is different than a consultant. A consultant will give you specific advice and tell you what to do according to their particular formula or process. A coach will assist you in gaining access to your own guidance system. There are quite a few articles on the internet and in magazines that provide specifics, including questions to ask. Bottom-line, after you’ve asked all the right questions, ask yourself if you trust them and really believe you would benefit from working with them. If you feel uncomfortable to the point that you want to get away as fast as you can, trust yourself and don’t buy the idea that you are blocking your good. The right professional will find a way to help you break through self-limiting habits and beliefs.
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